Friday, October 18, 2013

New Breath

It's been a long time since I last blogged. I'm not a fan of keeping diaries, mostly because it becomes a chore and I don't like homework. However, there have been so many moments where I just felt like talking, or unloading my thoughts, and that just ended without an outlet. So this afternoon, I sat down, blog-platform hunted and here it is....

My blog, for whatever that captures my fancy.

And whoever you are who happens to be reading this, you're welcome to share my journey. As of now, I plan to keep this blog for on the spur reflections, essays and random thoughts. Who knows?

Saturday, September 28, 2013

A First Look at Disney's Strong and Sexy Cinderella


Lily James as Ella in 'Cinderella' Here is our first look at Lily James as Cinderella!
Riding a horse while showing more skin than the classic 1950 animated character ever revealed, this new image of Rella is just the first indication of the changes that Disney has in store.
Disney states that the look, crafted by "Cinderella" director Kenneth Branagh, honors the tradition of the iconic princess while giving it a new spin of Branagh's own, according to a statement released on Monday.
"She combines knockout beauty with intelligence, wit, fun, and physical grace," Branagh says of the Lily James version.
Best known as Lady Rose MacClare on "Downton Abbey," James's Rella has flowing blonde hair and wears a dress that looks somewhat similar to the animated Cinderella's ball gown. Cinderella's outfit also shows off some ... wait for it ... cleavage! And no, the original Disney character didn't come close to showing as much.
Seen gamboling through a field on horseback, Cinderella looks to be a strong and capable horsewoman — an aspect of the character that hasn't been seen much of in the past. Overall, the image suggests that while this "Cinderella" will still be a period piece, it will give its leading character a more modern and independent streak than Cinderellas of yore.
Lily James (Photo: Ben A. Pruchnie/Getty Images)In spite of Cinderella's updates — which include a name change — Branagh plans to honor our favorite moments from the '50s animated feature. "It is impossible to think of Cinderella without thinking of Disney and the timeless images we’ve all grown up watching. And those classic moments are irresistible to a filmmaker," he says.
Matching the updated look, the first official synopsis included in Disney's statement reveals that Branagh and screenwriter Chris Weitz ("About A Boy" and "The Golden Compass") are giving the beloved fairy tale a few modernish twists. In their version, Cinderella begins the story as Ella. Her new name is actually a mean-spirited insult given to her by her Stepmother (played by Cate Blanchett), who turns her into a lowly servant after the death of her mother.
While riding through the woods, Ella meets a handsome stranger who she believes works at the nearby Royal Palace. It turns out, he's really the charming Prince (Richard Madden of "Game of Thrones"), which certainly puts a different spin on their romance. And when Ella is prevented from attending a ball at the Palace by her hard-hearted stepmother and ill-mannered sisters (Holliday Grainger and Sophie McShera), she's given some unexpected help by an elderly beggar woman (Helena Bonham Carter) — who turns out to be more than Ella could ever imagine. Can you say Fairy Godmother?

Attention world! Its Diwali


After his four successful years in the University of Benin, he subjected himself to a realm, trying to figure out what to stick to, further his studies after service or to take his career in music to entirely another level... Henry Samankwe from Delta State transformed into Diwali, a music name give to him by one of his Indian fans after performing and thrilling with his rap recipe at one of his shows at Incubator, Ligali in Lagos... He is set to rule his world and planning on his forthcoming mixtape, titled " THE STREET CHEMIST" playing with some of the hiphop beats you know... This is a link to two of his circular songs
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Friday, September 20, 2013

Space: How cold does it get when we leave Earth?


How cold is it in space? That question is sure to prompt the geeks among us to pipe up with “2.7K”. For 2.7 Kelvin, or 2.7 degrees above absolute zero, is the temperature produced by the uniform background radiation or “afterglow” from the Big Bang.
But hang on. Evidently you don’t hit temperatures that low the moment you step outside the Earth’s atmosphere. Heat is streaming from the Sun to warm the Earth, and it will also warm other objects exposed to its rays. Take the Moon, which has virtually no atmosphere to complicate things. On the sunlit side the Moon is hotter than the Sahara – it can top 120C (248F). But on the dark side it can drop to around minus 170C (–338F).
So just how cold can it go in our own cosmic neighbourhood? This isn’t an idle question. If you’re thinking of sending spacecraft up there, let alone people, you need to know the answer. You also need to know the answer if you want to carry out low-temperature physics experiments in space precisely because you think it is that cold.
Of course, you can do low-temperature physics experiments on Earth if you want to ,say, study particle behaviour at the atomic level – liquid-helium coolant sends temperatures below 4K (–269C/–452F) in the lab, and some experiments have come to within just a few billionths of a kelvin of absolute zero. But some planned studies also demand zero gravity. You can get that on Earth for a short time in freefall air flights, but for longer than a few seconds you need to go into space.
One such experiment, called MAQRO, hopes to test fundamental features of quantum theory and perhaps search for subtle effects in a quantum picture of gravity – something that physicists can so far see only in the haziest terms. So the scientists behind MAQRO have now worked outwhether it will in fact be possible to get cold enough, on a spacecraft carrying the equipment, for the tests to work.
MAQRO was proposed last year by Rainer Kaltenbaek and Markus Aspelmeyer of the University of Vienna, and their collaborators. The experiment aims to study one of the most profound puzzles in quantum theory: how or why do the rules that govern fundamental particles like electrons and atoms, give way to the “classical” physics of the everyday world? Why do quantum particles sometimes behave like waves whereas footballs don’t?
No one fully understands this so-called quantum-to-classical transition. But one of the favourite explanations invokes an idea called decoherence, which means that in effect the quantum behaviour of a system gets jumbled and ultimately erased because of the disruptive effects of the environment. These effects become stronger the more particles the system contains, because then there are more options for the environment to interfere. For objects large enough to see, containing countless trillions of atoms, decoherence happens in an instant, washing out quantum effects in favour of classical behaviour.
In this picture, it should be possible to preserve “quantum-ness” in any system, no matter how big, if you could isolate it perfectly from its environment. In principle, even footballs would then show wave-particle duality and could exist in two states, or two places, at once. But some theories, as yet still speculative and untested, insist that something else will prevent this weird behaviour in large, massive objects, perhaps because of effects that would disclose something about a still elusive quantum theory of gravity.
So the stakes for MAQRO could be big. The experimental apparatus itself wouldn’t be too exotic. Kaltenbaek and colleagues propose to use laser beams to place a “big” particle (about a tenth of a micrometre across) in two quantum states at once, called a superposition, and then to probe with the lasers how decoherence destroys this superposition (or not). The apparatus would have to be very cold because, as with most quantum effects, heat would disrupt a delicate superposition. And performing the experiment in zero gravity on a spacecraft could show whether gravity does indeed play a role in the quantum-to-classical transition. Putting it all on a spacecraft would be about as close to perfect isolation from the environment as one can imagine

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Top Five Shortest WWE Championship Reigns in History



COMMENTARY | Most professional wrestling fans aren't happy about Daniel Bryan's two short-lived WWE Championship reigns.
Although Bryan's title reigns were each less than 24 hours, there have been many WWE Championship reigns that lasted one day or less. In fact, Bryan's WWE Championship reign that lasted only a few minutes at SummerSlam isn't even the shortest title reign in the promotion's history. Several short WWE title reigns have only lasted a few minutes.
Take a look back at the top five shortest WWE Championshipreigns in history.
5. Randy Orton: 22 minutes 55 seconds
After John Cena had held the WWE Championship for over a year from September of 2006 to October of 2007, the next WWE title reign was much shorter. Cena vacated the WWE Championship due to injury and Vince McMahon awarded the belt to Randy Orton in the opening segment of No Mercy. In what turned out to be a bizarre pay-per-view, Randy Orton immediately lost the belt to Triple H, but he he won it back two hours later in the main event.
4. Daniel Bryan: 4 minutes 7 seconds
Most wrestling fans saw this finish coming at SummerSlam 2013. Before leaving to have surgery, Cena fought through an injury to put over Daniel Bryan. But shortly after Bryan's victory, referee Triple H delivered a Pedigree to the short-lived new WWE Champion. This prompted Orton to cash in his Money in the Bank contract, after which he quickly pinned Bryan. At least Daniel Bryan's next WWE Championship reign of nearly 22 hours wasn't as short.
3. John Cena: 3 minutes 33 seconds
At Elimination Chamber 2010, John Cena defeated several other wrestlers to become WWE Champion. After Cena's long, physical match, Vince McMahon appeared on the ramp, congratulated him, and then sent Batista to the ring to wrestle the new WWE Champion for the belt. The WWE title match lasted under a minute, as Cena was no match for his fresh opponent. John Cena's short title reign remains the shortest WWE Championship reign of the WWE era.
2. Yokozuna: 2 minutes 6 seconds
At Wrestlemania IX on April 4, 1993, Yokozuna defeated Bret Hart to become WWF Champion. He won the match when his manager, Mr. Fuji, threw salt in Hart's eyes. This prompted Hulk Hogan to come down and check on Hart. For some reason, Fuji then offered Hogan a title match. Despite Yokozuna's immense size, even he was no match for the power of Hulkamania. A misguided salt toss, followed by a leg drop, ended Yokozuna's very short title reign.
1. Andre the Giant: 1 minute 48 seconds
The events of February 5, 1988 may be one of the most over-booked segments in WWE history. On NBC's The Main Event, Andre the Giant defeated Hulk Hogan after The Million Dollar Man Ted DiBiase got referee Dave Hebner's evil twin to count three even though Hogan's shoulder was up. When Gene Okerlund interviewed the new champion, Andre immediately gave the belt to DiBiase. The WWF recognized Andre's relinquishment for the shortest WWF Championship reign in history.

BlackBerry to lay off 4,500 or 40 percent of global workforce; posts nearly $1B 2Q loss


BlackBerry says it will lay off 4,500 employees, or 40 percent of its global workforce, as it reports a nearly $1 billion second-quarter loss in a surprise early release of earnings results.
The stock dropped 19 percent to $8.50 after reopening for trading. Shares had been halted pending the news.
BlackBerry had been scheduled to release earnings next week. But the Canadian company said late Friday afternoon it expects a loss of about $950 million to $995 million for the quarter, including a massive inventory charge due to increasing market competition.
The BlackBerry, pioneered in 1999, was the dominant smartphone for on-the-go business people and other customers before Apple debuted the iPhone in 2007. Since then, BlackBerry Ltd. has been hammered by competition from the iPhone as well as Android-based rivals like Samsung

Thursday, September 19, 2013

Happy 33th Birthday Linda Ikeji

Yay, its linda's birthday from LIB, HAPPY BIRTHDAY Linda! 33th?!! and you so good, chopping money is sure... wishing you Long live and prosperity

Big Bang Theory' Stars Seeking Hefty Pay Raises


The Big Bang Theory leads Jim ParsonsJohnny Galecki and Kaley Cuoco are seeking sizable pay increases, The Hollywood Reporter has confirmed. The moves come after co-stars Mayim Bialik andMelissa Rauch recently inked new deals with studio Warner Bros. Television to guarantee their long-term presence on the series, securing raises in the process.
Sources tell THR that Emmy winner Parsons (Sheldon), Galecki (Leonard) and Cuoco (Penny) will negotiate together -- as they did in 2010 -- and are looking for a considerable bump in pay from their current deal. According to a TV Guide Magazine report, the trio currently earns $325,000 per episode and may seek up to $1 million an episode.
Original stars Simon Helberg (Howard) and Kunal Nayyar (Raj) also are said to be looking for increases and will renegotiate together.
The new deals for Bialik and Rauch, who joined the series midway through its run and were promoted from recurring to regulars, will see their salary jump from $20,000-$30,000/episode to the $60,000 ballpark, with increases each year taking them to $100,000 per episode by the end of their new contracts.
Warner Bros. Television declined comment.
CBS has renewed Big Bang Theory through its upcoming seventh season, which begins next week. The series on Sunday is up for the best comedy Emmy, with Parsons again in the running for best actor. (The show has yet to win in the comedy series category.) Comic legend Bob Newhart also recently collected his first career win for his guest appearance on the Chuck Lorre comedy and is due to return this season

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

UK court sees jailed Nigerian ex-governor's opulent palace

 A British court was shown footage on Wednesday of a palatial property built in Nigeria for jailed former governor James Ibori, complete with marble columns and a private gym, that offered a glimpse into the lifestyle of Nigeria's ruling class.
The opulent mansion staffed by cooks, maids and chauffeurs was just one of a portfolio of properties across the world worth over $10 million in total that Ibori acquired while governor of oil-producing Delta State from 1999 to 2007.
Footage of the property at Clement Isong Street in Abuja, taken by Nigeria's Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) when it searched the home this year, revealed a level of luxury unimaginable to most of Nigeria's 170 million people.
The majority live in ramshackle housing with little or no electricity or running water.
The film showed a monumental facade with white marble columns two storeys high. Inside were vast reception rooms adorned with crystal chandeliers, gilded mirrors and marble-topped tables.
The property also boasted a large private gym with a treadmill, cross-trainer and other fitness equipment. A close-up shot inside one of several marble bathrooms showed a power shower with electronic control panels.
Last year Ibori pleaded guilty at London's Southwark Crown Court to 10 counts of money-laundering and fraud in one of the biggest embezzlement cases seen in Britain. He is serving a 13-year term at Long Lartin maximum security prison in England.
CHILDREN'S PARLOUR
Shown as part of a confiscation hearing in which prosecutors are seeking court orders for Ibori's assets to be seized, the film featured a directory of telephone extensions across the property including the "children's parlour" and "staff house".
A list of staff and suppliers included multiple chauffeurs, cooks and housekeepers as well as details of how to reach the "TV man".
Footage of what appeared to be the master bedroom showed an enormous bed with an ornate velvet and silver headboard, facing a large flat-screen television flanked by four high-tech standing speakers.
Outside the house were parked a luxurious Range Rover with TV screens on the back of the leather seats, a red Lexus car and a Toyota pick-up truck. EFCC investigators were filmed searching under mattresses, inside drawers and inside a toilet tank.
They could also be seen looking through papers found in the property including what appeared to be an invoice from French luxury goods maker Louis Vuitton.
That such footage was shown in open court in London will be a humiliation for a man who was once addressed as His Excellency and courted by crowds of people seeking his patronage.
Ibori was not present in court, having declined to attend the confiscation hearing.
In his heyday, Ibori was a power broker at the heart of Nigeria's ruling party. He is by far the most prominent Nigerian politician to be held accountable for the corruption that blights Africa's most populous nation and top oil producer.

blackberry z30

Though struggling financially, BlackBerry isn't giving up just yet. The brand has presented its latest high-end smartphone, the Z30, a device with a 5-inch screen that runs a brand new version of the company's in-house OS.
With its 5-inch Super AMOLED screen, the new smartphone resembles a larger version of the Z10. Under the hood, the BlackBerry Z30 is equipped with a 1.7GHz quad-core processor, a powerful battery (2880 mAh) for up to 25 hours of use between charges, and a new antenna, which is said to optimize reception when the network signal is weak. The new smartphone is also the first to feature BB 10.2, the latest update to BlackBerry's proprietary OS, which will make its way to the Z10, Q10 and Q5 in mid-October.
Launching in the UK and the Middle East before the end of this month, the BlackBerry Z30 will make its way to additional markets, including the US and European markets, before the end-of-year holidays.
The Z30: BlackBerry's salvation, or its last hurrah?
BlackBerry finds itself in an increasingly precarious situation as its smartphone market share has continued to decline, standing today at just 3 to 4 percent, according to different analysts. Directors at the Canadian firm are looking into a number of possible solutions to the company's financial crisis, including the sale of the company itself.
After a lukewarm reception for the Z10, released in 2013, this latest device may be BlackBerry's last chance to bounce back in the increasingly competitive smartphone market.
Watch the video presentation of the BlackBerry Z30: youtu.be/cQVKISYQ31s

Saturday, September 14, 2013

8 Surprising Effects of Obesity


More than 36 percent of Americans are now considered obese, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. An additional 34 percent are considered overweight.
These statistics are quoted so often that many people may no longer find them surprising. Yet what may still be surprising is how far the effects of obesity reach beyond clothing size and cardiovascular risks. In addition to health, it can also impact other aspects of your life, including family relationships and income.
Read on to learn about seven ways carrying those extra pounds may be influencing the way you live.

More Migraines

A new study published in the journal Neurology revealed what a real headache carrying extra weight can be. Johns Hopkins researchers surveyed nearly 4,000 people to find that the higher their body mass index, the greater their chances were of having episodic migraines. Those who were obese were 81 percent more likely to experience at least 14 migraine headaches each month compared to people who were a healthy weight. Obese women over the age of 50 suffered from chronic headaches the most.

More Cancer

The National Cancer Institute associates 34,000 new cases of cancer in men and 50,000 in women each year with obesity.
Right now the link between excess weight and cancer is purely circumstantial and not necessarily cause-and-effect, but experts have floated some theories as to why more body fat tracks with higher rates of cancer.
"It could be that excess fat cells increase hormonal activity or they increase growth factors that lead to tumor growth," said Dr. Raul Seballos, vice chairman of preventive medicine at the Cleveland Clinic.
Obese people are at higher risk for all cancers, Seballos said. They are often diagnosed in later stages of cancer than thinner people and are more likely to die from the disease. Some emerging data looking at weight-loss surgery patients suggests that some of this risk can be diminished by losing weight.

Infertility Increases

Overweight women have a harder time getting pregnant. One Indian study of 300 morbidly obese women found that over 90 percent of them developed polycystic ovarian disease, a condition associated with infertility, over a three-year period.
As with cancer, the association between obesity and infertility isn't entirely clear.
"Obesity is an inflammatory state and that alone might decrease fertility," noted Dr. Marc Bessler, director of the Center for Weight Loss and Metabolic Surgery at New York Presbyterian Hospital atColumbia University Medical Center. "It may also be the result of hormone changes produced by the fatty tissue."
Bessler said that many of his heavier patients experienced difficulty getting pregnant. And many infertility clinics don't accept female patients with high body mass indexes given their diminished chances of conceiving. However, Bessler said some of his patients become pregnant just months after weight-loss surgery once they had dropped a few pounds.

Premature Birth Risk

For heavier women who do get pregnant, the worries aren't over. A new study in the Journal of the American Medical Association found that obesity increases a woman's chance of having a pre-term baby, especially when her body mass index is 35 or higher. The study's authors speculate that having too much fat may inflame and weaken the uterine and cervical membranes. Whatever the reason, it can have devastating effects. Premature birth is the leading cause of infant death and long-term disabilities.

Less Shuteye

Sleep and excess weight do not make good bedfellows. Nearly 80 percent of older, obese Americans report having problems with sleep, a recent American Sleep Foundation survey found.
Poor sleep contributes to a host of diseases including diabetes, heart disease and, ironically, obesity itself. Numerous studies link short sleep to expanding waistlines, including the Harvard Nurses' Study, which found that those who slumbered less than five hours a night were 15 percent more likely to gain weight than those who enjoyed at least seven hours of sleep.
Dr. Donald Hensrud, a nutritionist and preventive medicine expert in the department of endocrinology, diabetes, metabolism and nutrition at the Mayo Clinic, said one of the most immediate health dangers for many obese people is sleep apnea, a condition in which a person gasps or stops breathing momentarily while asleep.
"Sleep apnea can be caused by increased fat around the neck area that presses down and closes off the soft tissues of the airways while a person is lying down, especially on his back," Hensrud said. "This means the person does not get good quality sleep, has less oxygen in the blood stream, and the heart has to work harder."

Tough Love

Though fat people are often the butt of the joke, obesity stigma is no laughing matter.
A Yale study found that weight is the number one reason people are bullied at any age and those who are bullied have lower self-esteem, higher levels of depression and increased risk of suicide.
The main source of ridicule, according to the Yale researchers: Loved ones.
"More than 40 percent of children who seek treatment for weight loss say they have been bullied or teased by a family member," said the study's lead author, Rebecca Puhl. "When we asked obese women who stigmatized them the most, 72 percent said it was someone in their family."
Puhl said discussions with loved ones about their burgeoning weight often come across as judgmental and derogatory, even when intentions are good. However, offering support and encouragement is the most effective approach to help someone struggling to drop off pounds.

Medical Gap

The number two source of stigma, after loved ones?
Puhl said her studies have found that 67 percent of overweight men and women report being shamed or bullied in the doctor's office. And 50 percent of doctors found that fat patients were "awkward, ugly, weak-willed and unlikely to comply with treatment" while 24 percent of nurses said they were repulsed by their obese patients.
A negative reception from a healthcare provider is especially detrimental to obese people, Puhl stressed, because they already contend with a greater number of health problems than average.
"Besides jeopardizing discussions between patients and healthcare providers, someone who is obese is more likely to avoid the doctor altogether even when they have a problem," she said.
However Puhl noted that the knife cuts both ways. Her studies reveal that people are less apt to follow doctor's orders and more likely to switch to a new provider if their physician is overweight.

Shrinking Wallet

Justin Bieber As Robin In ‘Man Of Steel’ Sequel? Or Is It An Instascam?


And you thought the Bat-backlash over Ben Affleck was harsh. Days after Jimmy Kimmel admitted punking the media and the masses with his “Twerk Fail” video — and the same day a Glee starsigned to play the Flash — along comes this. Justin Bieber today put a photo on Instragram of him holding what appears to be a “Bieber”-watermarked copy of the script for Warner Bros’ Man Of Steel sequel. (Note the Batman vs. Superman title and “Based onBatman: The Dark Knight Falls by Frank Miller & Klaus Jensen”.) If that weren’t enough to horrify or thrill folks, the caption reads, “#robin ??” The accompanying comments are all over the map, of course, ranging from “Yusssss!” and “OMFG JUSTIN DREW BIEBER BRB DYING” to “Stick with music & little kids stuff” and some entirely unprintable things. But look closely at that picture — doesn’t it look a wee bit, shall we say, enhanced? Like maybe something out of a comic book? Decide for yourself if this is real or not. Then, please, move on with your lives.

Friday, September 13, 2013

Pharrell talks about battle over 'Blurred Lines'


Even though Pharrell is engaged in a battle with Marvin Gaye's estate over Robin Thicke's megahit "Blurred Lines," he wants to make one thing clear — he has incredible respect for the late soul legend.
"I'm a huge fan of Marvin Gaye. He is a genius. He is the patriarch," Pharrell said on Thursday night.
The hit making singer and producer collaborated with Thicke on the No. 1 smash, which some have said sounds very similar to Gaye's "Got to Give it Up." Last month, Pharrell, Thicke and the song's other collaborator, T.I., filed a lawsuit asking a judge to determine that it does not copy Gaye's song and a song by George Clinton. It was a pre-emptive strike against future claims from Gaye's heirs that the song takes from Gaye's composition without credit.
Pharrell told The Associated Press on Thursday night that the two songs are not similar at all.
"If you read music, all you have to do is read the sheet music. It's completely different," he said while on the red carpet during an event for the Calvin Klein Collection during Fashion Week.
Gaye "is the king of all kings, so let's be clear about that. And we take our hats off to him," he said. "But anybody that plays music and reads music, just simply go to the piano and play the two. One's minor and one's major. And not even in the same key."
The Grammy winner has had a huge year; he was also a collaborator on the other big song of the summer, Daft Punk's "Get Lucky."
"I'm thankful. It's awesome," he said. "You know, the people are doing it. You know what I mean? They don't have to, but the fact that they have, it's a really awesome experience and moment, you know?"

5 Men You Need to Meet (But Not Marry)

1. The One Who Never Wanted to Commit--Until He Met You 
This sounds like the dream, right? The guy who proclaimed to all that he'd never settle down with anyone ever, and then ate his words when you came along? But the problem is that no matter how wowed by you he is now, the moment things become less exciting, less overwhelmingly amazing between the two of you (and the moment will come), he is likely to have second thoughts. And that will make you feel awful. Maybe you'll sense it happening, in which case you'll probably try harder, to do whatever you can to make sure things don't get less exciting. But that's a basis for a performance, not a marriage. 

You need to meet this guy, however, so that when you meet the guy you should marry you can tell the difference. The one you ought to marry will be a person who wants to be in a committed relationship and who will work with you to make your marriage strong. He won't feel he has made a mistake, or been duped, every time something between the two of you isn't perfect, because he will already know that relationships, like other true and meaningful things, operate on an axis that has nothing to do with perfect--they are messy, real, evolving things. That's what's so great about them. 

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2. The Guy Who Knows Everyone, I Mean, Everyone, In Town 
This is a guy who'll save you when you need to get a table at the hot, new restaurant or a contact at a company to which you're thinking of sending your resume. But be wary. This guy is always chatting on the phone--or sending emails or responding to texts--during dinners, holidays, all the times when you long for attention. Makes sense: He's responding to all those other people who need an in at that trendy restaurant or a professional contact, after all, and he's got to keep his Rolodex up-to-date; it requires constant effort. His desire to help, his sociability, these are some of his best qualities--as a friend. 

3. The Funny, Charming, Sensitive Guy Who Pouts and Says "Nothing" When You Ask Him If Something's Wrong 
He's got so many wonderful qualities. So please, date him--if only because you'll learn a lot about the importance of another quality: open communication. The thing about marriage is that it's really long. You might be the greatest, most thoughtful and kind-hearted person in the world; I guarantee you are still going to occasionally piss him off. 

It's easier, for all of us, to sit in silence and seethe and think self-righteously that if our partners were better people, they would know why we are mad and wouldn't have to ask. It's a lot harder to say, "I know you didn't mean it, but that joke you made in front of our friends about my slow work habits made me feel lame." Yet, so much of marriage comes down to just those moments--spitting it out, explaining what's wrong and giving your partner a chance to apologize and do better the next time. The brooding guy who punishes you with silence? After a while, you're likely to become so afraid of making him angry--and so unsure of what exactly bothers him since he never tells you--that you'll have to tiptoe around him. 

4. The Guy Who Is So Good-Looking--or Wealthy or Successful--That All Your Friends Are in Awe 
Here's my advice: See what it feels like to walk into a room with him. Watch your friends' and acquaintances' eyes widen ever so slightly. Just remember, it can be hard to separate the feeling of pride and exhilaration that comes from having won the affection of someone deemed desirable from the more tender feelings that are the basis of love. Marriage is made up of so many amazing moments other than walking into rooms. Make sure the guy you marry is the guy you most want to stay up late with when it's just the two of you, the one you love being alone with at home. 

5. The Earnest, Bright-Eyed Younger Man Who Adores You
 
This guy not only wants to commit your every utterance to memory but also heartens you with his sweetness and solemn desire to find love. This will help you more than you know, especially on those days when the men you've dated have caused you to question whether guys even have feelings. (We all have those days.) This man will help you to feel optimistic about humanity and about yourself. But you can't get romantic with him over the long term. Not because of his age--there's nothing wrong with walking down the aisle with someone younger--but because one-sided adoration inevitably curdles into resentment that the feeling isn't mutual. You might not even want to get romantic with him in the short term because he might feel some real feelings and what you might really like is the flattering reflection of yourself you see in his admiring gaze. By choosing to let him go, you'll have done the right thing--acting in the best interests of two connected people--which is exactly what's required when you meet the man you so, so, so need to marry

Grand Theft Auto V stands ready to break records


"Call of Duty" might be the video game industry's 500-pound gorilla, but on Sept. 17, it faces its biggest threat yet.
That's when Rockstar Games and Take-Two Interactive Software will release "Grand Theft Auto V," the first new full game in the series in five years—and analysts expect it to be one of the biggest releases of the year.
Life to date, the GTA series has sold more than 125 million copies—a staggering figure that few franchises can match. And there's no doubt on Wall Street that the release of "GTA V" will result in a huge revenue boost.
Like "Call of Duty," every "Grand Theft Auto" release is the gaming industry's equivalent of a blockbuster Hollywood opening. In 2008, "GTA IV" took in $310 million, which (at the time) set an entertainment industry record, topping the first week gross of any film or music event.
Fans line up for their copies of the game, with several retailers offering midnight launches. GameStop plans to open most of its stores at 9 p.m. on the 16th to celebrate the event (though it won't release the game until 12:01 a.m. the following day). Past launches have had people lined up dozens deep to be among the first to get their copy.
"It will be an inflection point for Take-Two in both the September as well as December quarter," said Colin Sebastian of Robert W. Baird & Co. "This is the vast majority of the entire company's profitability. Take-Two is a more diversified company now than it was five years ago, but in non-GTA years, they struggle to make a modest profit."
'Call of Duty' too addicting?
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That anticipated profit has led investors to buy the stock over the past 13 months. The value of Take-Two shares has increased 122 percent since Aug 1, 2012.
While the publisher is being conservative in its early guidance for the game (implying it will ship 12 million copies in the first two weeks), Wedbush analyst Michael Pachter expects the number to be closer to 14 million units. Sebastian estimates 15 million.
Those numbers will likely increase as the holiday season hits, making it a battle between "GTA V" and "Call of Duty: Ghosts" for bragging rights as to which is 2013's best-selling game.
"I think those two will be pretty close," said Pachter. "Activision has done about 20 million units consistently in the calendar year. For GTA, that's a stretch. No GTA game has sold that many units in that compressed a time frame. ... But the installed base [of consoles] is unprecedentedly large this time around."
The landscape for gaming has changed since 2008's "GTA IV," though. It was around that time that multiplayer elements started to become more critical to players. No game capitalized on this better than "Call of Duty," which now boasts roughly 25 million players shooting it out in its online servers.
Single-player games, a focus "GTA" experiences have excelled at, aren't exactly out of favor, but they haven't had the same sort of longevity in the sales charts.
"The difference today is a six-hour game, like 'Call of Duty,' becomes a 500-hour game, since you play 10 hours a week in multiplayer." said Pachter. "That competes pretty heavily with the 80-100 hour [single-player] experience of 'GTA'. I wonder if multiplayer has sucked up the large percentage of people who have 80 hours per week to play a game."
"GTA V" hopes to compete with its own take on multiplayer games, offering online cities which players can choose to explore alone or with up to 15 friends. These will be initially populated with more than 500 missions—a hefty figure for any title. Rockstar says they'll also be frequently updated with new content created by both the developer and the community.
Blending user-generated content (a growing and popular trend in the industry) with a shared world that's not filled with random strangers shooting at you could be a respite from the chaotic battles of games like "Call of Duty" and EA's "Battlefield."
Pachter remains skeptical.
"I think the multiplayer is kind of stupid," he says. "I think it's not the kind of game that lends itself to multiplayer. ... It's a perfect single-player game, but ... I don't see how it gets people excited for multiplayer. It's not strategy. It's not military. And it's not a game where the weapons matter."
Sebastian, though, thinks players will embrace the new elements.
Japan: Gaming's holy grail?
Jonathan Galaviz, Managing Director at Galaviz & Co, says Japan is the perfect market for Asia's expanding gaming industry and government should prioritize passing needed legislation as part of its economic development agenda.
"GTA Online has all of the right ingredients to be successful," he says. "There has been some good consumer buzz from what Rockstar has shared so far. I'm inclined to be fairly optimistic about the multiplayer success."
Of course, it wouldn't be a "Grand Theft Auto" game without its share of controversies. The series, historically, has pushed the limits of what's shown in video games—and if the ratings description from the ESRB is any indicator, its developers plan to do so again.
There's torture; implied fellatio and masturbation; the ability to smoke a marijuana joint or do cocaine; and "a brief instance of necrophilia."
Not surprisingly, "Grand Theft Auto V" is rated M and meant only for mature audiences

Meet the blobfish: The newly crowned 'ugliest animal in the world'



Say hi to my new spirit animal.
This is the blobfish, a squishy and endangered deep sea creature that floats in the waters off the coast of Australia. It has recently been given the illustrious distinction as "the world's ugliest animal" by the Ugly Animal Preservation Society, a collaborative effort between the British Science Association and the National Science + Engineering Competition, which is dedicated to "raising the profile of some of Mother Nature's more aesthetically challenged children."
The blobfish's gelatinous flesh is a nifty adaption that helps the 12-inch fish stay afloat just above the sea floor without having to move or expend energy, "sort of like when you float in the water wearing a lifejacket," as the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration describes it.
Unfortunately, the blobfish's low kinetic output, coupled with overfishing (it's not edible), have caused the blobfish's numbers to dwindle. "We've needed an ugly face for endangered animals for a long time and I've been amazed by the public's reaction," says Simon Watt of the Ugly Animal Preservation Society. "For too long the cute and fluffy animals have taken the limelight but now the blobfish will be a voice for the mingers who always get forgotten."

Thursday, September 12, 2013

How and Why to Rid Sugar From Your Diet


Ask most people how they feel about grocery shopping, and they may talk about the supermarketthey'll never set foot into, where it smells bad and the produce looks pitiful, or the sunny one with nice cuts of meat and good prices on children's cereal. But to Robert Lustig, a professor of clinical pediatrics at the University of California, San Francisco School of Medicine, the supermarket is something else entirely. It's ground zero in the fight for your life, where decisions between plain or flavored Greek yogurt, oranges or orange juice, and red kidney beans or Bush's Grillin' Beans mean the difference between sickness and health.
The last 30 years have seen an onslaught of sugar and dwindling of fiber in the food environment, a deadly combination for consumers who have been duped by the food industry, Lustig argues. He sounded this battle cry in his 2009 lecture, "Sugar: The Bitter Truth," which became a viral hit with nearly 4 million views on YouTube, and in his 2012 book, "Fat Chance: Beating the Odds Against Sugar, Processed Food, Obesity and Disease."
Now, he's putting his message in more practical terms, offering consumers a handbook for the supermarket with "Sugar Has 56 Names: A Shopper's Guide." An e-book that's meant to travel with shoppers on their smartphones or tablets, the guide, released this month, provides consumers with a new nutrition label for hundreds of processed foods that puts the spotlight on where it should be, he argues: sugar. From soy milk to sausage, and Sara Lee to supermarket brands, the data delineates the quality and quantity of sugar in products. Why the distinction? Because, as the book's title indicates, sugar goes by varied names - from fructose to fruit juice, and these derivatives differ greatly in how they're processed by the body.
"By paying attention to the sugar portion of the label people can do better in terms of making their own decisions," Lustig says. The current nutrition label falls far short of that, he says, noting that the label lacks a percent daily value for sugar, which makes it difficult for people to calculate how much is too much.
Meanwhile, added sugar has crept into the food supply in everything from bread to barbecue sauce, and often the ingredients are cloaked in curious names and orders. For example, products list ingredients according to quantity, but a product might include various forms of sugar as its fifth through ninth ingredients, which, when added together, render sugar worthy of the first listing. But by reading a nutrition label, you can't distinguish between a food's inherent and added sugar, the behemoth between you and good health.
At stake, Lustig argues, is less the issue of obesity than the risk of metabolic diseases, which includes diabetes, heart disease, fatty liver disease, cancer and dementia. And sugar, he says, is a big part of the problem.
More details about the interaction of food substances on our physiology are provided in the book - he also has a low-sugar, high-fiber cookbook slated for release next year - but he leaves readers with some overarching directives, like these six tips: don't go to the supermarket hungry; shop along the perimeter of the supermarket where fresh, whole foods abound; if it comes with a logo you've heard of, it's been processed; avoid anything "partially hydrogenated" ("it will outlive you," he writes); just because it says "whole grain" doesn't mean it is, but if it doesn't say whole grain it isn't; if sugar is listed among the first three ingredients, it's dessert.
What else? Start your supper with a salad free of sugary dressing to fill up on fiber-rich food. Skip the cereal and granola bars and make a fast, healthy breakfast by scrambling eggs or frying some bacon the night before. Let your kids pack their (dessert-free) lunch with items they choose so they're more likely to eat it.
For his part, there's "no such thing as a sugared beverage" in his home. "We have milk, we have water and occasionally we have some alcoholic drinks when we have friends over," he says. "There is no reason to drink your calories." To ensure sufficient fiber, the Lustigs have salad with every meal, which typically consists of a protein and green vegetables and whole-grain bread instead of white rice, pasta and potatoes. For dessert, it's whole fruit, except for weekends, when they treat their daughters, ages 8 and 14, to something "a little more elaborate," he says.
"We have to get back to dessert being once a week, not once a meal," Lustig says. As he writes, "Sugar is reward. Sugar is fun, but if every meal is fun, then no meal is fun. And I promise, you won't be having fun taking your insulin shots while you're on dialysis."
To change the food culture, and the food supply, he encourages consumers to vote with their mouths and wallets. "We, as a society, have to reduce availability, and we cannot do that right now without the food industry helping us do it," he says. "If you won't buy it, they won't sell it."